Well you guys are better than I could have ever thought.

After posting this I decided to search a bunch of different key words to see if I could come up with anymore. I luckily came across this thread
http://forum.phathack.com/index.php/topic,602.20.html and realized that I knew Crane from years ago at the car forum I frequented because we were the first two to attempt the Phatbox install on our Mazda3's. So I decided to read through his thread just to laugh about us trying to figure this all out back then together. Ans wouldn't you know it, he hosted the old firmware files in that thread and I lost my original files long ago to a HD meltdown.
Well long story short is I downloaded the firmware files, re-updated my Phatbox, and we're back up and rolling like nothing happened. Wouldn't you know just starting over was the best option and I could never try it because I didn't have the original firmware files?
Anyways, I wanted to come back and post my resolution again for two reasons. First is because I hate being that one post guy who asks a question and then never comes back, and I didn't want to be another one of those guys at your forum. Second is because some other random internet guy might just happen across my thread with the same problem and he will be able to find the answer without having to become one of those guys at your forum.
So thank you again, even if you didn't have to answer my questions directly, because keeping this forum going and active is more than enough to keep Phatboxes working.